If your man or friend told u they got raped in jail in the past..

Would you remain a friend or in a relationship with him? My sisters man who hasn't a gay bone in his body ( all pun intended ) told us at a social gathering that his manhood got took several times when he was in the Feds. Now my sister is like devistated but I'm like shiiiiiit! At least he manned up! Pun intended again.

How would y'all resond to this situation?