Sup y'all. So I'm in the worst place ever that a father would ever want to be. I used to b with my baby moms for almost 5 years but we split up almost 2 years ago. We have a 4 year old son together. So it's been months since I had contact with my son. She cut off all forms of communication, her phone no., she deleted her FB account, deleted Skype, doesn't respond to emails and the whole 9.
God knows how much I want to keep in touch with my son but this heifer is doing everything in her powers to ensure that my relationship with him is severed. I'm going out of my mind and I don't know wat to do. I've considered going the legal route to get a contact/visitation order but I have absolutely nothing to work with because I don't even know WHERE THE FUCK THEY EVEN LIVE! I don't have any contact with her family either nd since our split we never spoke or kept in touch.
I feel so helpless! Everything is leading me to minor depression. I have done everything I can but I'm not sure wat more I can do from here. It seems wenever I take 2 steps forward to be in my sons life, my ex takes 5 steps back to ensure that there's no contact whatsoever. Shit is stressing me the fuck out. I'm mentally nd emotionally exhausted by all of this to the point I just want to throw in the towel nd just be an absent father. But I vowed to myself that I will never fail my son, no matter what, I will always be there (or at least try by all means) to be in his life.
Wat r my options here? Wat can a brother really do? I need help asap
God knows how much I want to keep in touch with my son but this heifer is doing everything in her powers to ensure that my relationship with him is severed. I'm going out of my mind and I don't know wat to do. I've considered going the legal route to get a contact/visitation order but I have absolutely nothing to work with because I don't even know WHERE THE FUCK THEY EVEN LIVE! I don't have any contact with her family either nd since our split we never spoke or kept in touch.
I feel so helpless! Everything is leading me to minor depression. I have done everything I can but I'm not sure wat more I can do from here. It seems wenever I take 2 steps forward to be in my sons life, my ex takes 5 steps back to ensure that there's no contact whatsoever. Shit is stressing me the fuck out. I'm mentally nd emotionally exhausted by all of this to the point I just want to throw in the towel nd just be an absent father. But I vowed to myself that I will never fail my son, no matter what, I will always be there (or at least try by all means) to be in his life.
Wat r my options here? Wat can a brother really do? I need help asap