What do you want to provide your kids with, what morals and do you want install in them, and what game do you want them to soak from you that you're parents didn't instill in you?
When I have them
10) Network in college so that you'll be able to get a job upon graduation.
9) Your looks FUCKING MATTER! That doesn't mean blow all of your money on clothes, but society (especially white people,) will make it's initial impressions about you based on how you look. So it's of paramount importance that your clothes are always ironed and cleaned and that you're properly groomed.
8) Be in the position to advantage of opportunities when their presented to you.
7) Don't be a "worker bee." Whatever your chosen vocation, set your sights on being a business owner and own the property that your business is on. If my kids don't want to be entrepreneurs, I want them to have to have the goal of being C level officers in a corporation or senior partners in an accounting business or a law firm.
6) For my sons go through that learning curve with females in junior high and high school.
5) For my sons, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! If you find yourself in an ongoing sexual relationship with a chick, ask her what she will do in the event of a pregnancy, if she says anything other than have an abortion, stop fucking with that chick.
4) "No," is the most important and powerful thing to tell a person. If a person is treating you unfairly, the best way to get to clean up and change their behavior is to ignore them. After about a couple of weeks, explain to that individual why you stopped dealing with them. If the person continues to be faulty cut them off.
3) Always be honest and maintain your integrity.
2) For my daughters, you are the gatekeepers of sex and sex doesn't happened unless you agree to it. IT'S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO PREVENT PREGNANCIES! If man isn't responsible enough to use a condom, then their isn't this be leap of faith he's going be responsible enough to care for a child.
1) Finally and most importantly, if an an individual isn't good enough to be your spouse, then said person DAMN ISN'T GOOD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR CHILD'S PARENT!
When I have them
10) Network in college so that you'll be able to get a job upon graduation.
9) Your looks FUCKING MATTER! That doesn't mean blow all of your money on clothes, but society (especially white people,) will make it's initial impressions about you based on how you look. So it's of paramount importance that your clothes are always ironed and cleaned and that you're properly groomed.
8) Be in the position to advantage of opportunities when their presented to you.
7) Don't be a "worker bee." Whatever your chosen vocation, set your sights on being a business owner and own the property that your business is on. If my kids don't want to be entrepreneurs, I want them to have to have the goal of being C level officers in a corporation or senior partners in an accounting business or a law firm.
6) For my sons go through that learning curve with females in junior high and high school.
5) For my sons, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM! If you find yourself in an ongoing sexual relationship with a chick, ask her what she will do in the event of a pregnancy, if she says anything other than have an abortion, stop fucking with that chick.
4) "No," is the most important and powerful thing to tell a person. If a person is treating you unfairly, the best way to get to clean up and change their behavior is to ignore them. After about a couple of weeks, explain to that individual why you stopped dealing with them. If the person continues to be faulty cut them off.
3) Always be honest and maintain your integrity.
2) For my daughters, you are the gatekeepers of sex and sex doesn't happened unless you agree to it. IT'S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TO PREVENT PREGNANCIES! If man isn't responsible enough to use a condom, then their isn't this be leap of faith he's going be responsible enough to care for a child.
1) Finally and most importantly, if an an individual isn't good enough to be your spouse, then said person DAMN ISN'T GOOD ENOUGH TO BE YOUR CHILD'S PARENT!