when does a chick stop blaming the fact that

her father wasnt in her life.

and that thats the reason why she has bad relationships.

speaking to a chick yesterday. shes like 36-37 ish. she ran her man off but as she tells it...he couldnt handle her personality.
but she then went to to say that if she had a dad she would be able to pick better men that can handle her. i think he could have taught her limits an when to shut the fukk up.

but honestly....when do these types of chicks realize they have control over their decisions and know right from wrong.

ole angry bitter fine ass bitties

thoughts?