Is your s/o where they need to be at life?

Are you dating someone or in a relationship where your stuff is together but your partner's isn't? You're at 85-100% while they're at 50-85%? Are you the one playing catch up? I ask this because it's possible that when you're fully where you want to be at the moment, your s/o could bring or slow you down because they have bad habits to break, not handling money right or don't have the right attitude to strive forward. If you're at the 85-100% level, you would want someone at your level or a little higher. Even if you're at 100% you should continue to go higher. My lady was doing well before she met me and doing better.

So what things you or your s/o needed to work on, how they brought you up or down?